Gretchen, I can't answer "It is me" either. "It is I" sounds almost Elizabethan. But what do you say if you contract the verb? I can't get "It's I" at all. With contractions, at least for me, only "me" works. And, of course, in speech we nearly always contract all the auxiliaries and copulas we can. Herb -----Original Message----- From: Assembly for the Teaching of English Grammar on behalf of Gretchen Lee Sent: Tue 9/25/2007 2:19 PM To: [log in to unmask] Subject: Re: more teaching questions on grammar (singular "they") In a message dated 9/25/2007 10:29:20 A.M. Pacific Daylight Time, [log in to unmask] writes: I don't care which system wins out, but I wish we'd hit a firm consensus soon so I can stop worrying that I'll get my students in trouble by teaching them the wrong Bill, In middle school, I teach this the same way you do, and I explain to my students why the singular "their" is gaining acceptance. It drives them crazy. They want to view language as a simple set of rules that they can learn and be done. The idea that they have to take audience into consideration doesn't seem "fair" to them - that they might someday not get a job or into a school of their choice because they misjudge an audience really makes them angry. My answer, "welcome to the real world," doesn't seem to help. I try to help them sort it through, but they want me to give them set-in-stone answers. ~Gretchen, who still can't answer ""It is me" to the question "who is it?" ************************************** See what's new at http://www.aol.com To join or leave this LISTSERV list, please visit the list's web interface at: http://listserv.muohio.edu/archives/ateg.html and select "Join or leave the list" Visit ATEG's web site at http://ateg.org/ To join or leave this LISTSERV list, please visit the list's web interface at: http://listserv.muohio.edu/archives/ateg.html and select "Join or leave the list" Visit ATEG's web site at http://ateg.org/