FYI Please read these. Our children are depending on us and we need to stop buying into the "acting white" mythology that serves to absolve the majority culture educational administration from making a real effort to educate our children. It's easier on them if they can blame the kids for not educating themselves. http://www.nytimes.com/2004/12/12/magazine/12ACTING.html?ex=1260594000&e n=37bb3e44882a21bc&ei=5090&partner=rssuserland http://www.kent.edu/Magazine/Spring2007/ActingWhite.cfm